Before I state my ideas, PLEASE this has NOTHING to do with my personal life. I love my husband very much and he will have to put up with me for at least 60 years...lol....so with that clear...her it goes.
I have a few questions, don't I always, and would love it if I got some feedback, whether from the Biblical perspective or not...
Why do couples undergo years of masochistic suffering and after trying EVERYTHING in the book is still not working out, why do they stay together?
Why do many couple try to paint a picasso for society, when, in my opinion, lying isn't going to make it better?
Seriously, why if you are divorced, you get married more than another time....did you not learn from your previous mistakes?
Should the person that gets divorced re marry?
Then again, should a couple get married just because it's the right thing to do? (you know, circumstantial relationships)
In my personal opinion, todays society plays an important roll in todays families and especially marriages. They paint this picture perfect Cinderella rose bringing blue prince, and beautifully dressed at all times available house wife...anf marriage is not like that. AT ALL.
Marriage is one of the biggest acts of faith to take. You DONT know the other person well enough, and when the true colors start rising, or the first argument comes up, or when their fidelity is tested..and fails....then what? What book to read, where to turn. Churches are chaotic. People are afraid of being "alone". No one cares to read their Bible and trully read the entire passage.
The word of God clearly states how a man is supposed to treat his wife....as Christ loves the church. And how wives are supposed to treat and respect their husbands.
Now, don't get me wrong, there is no need to go to extremes. There are many unwritten rules and realities that no ones tells ready to marry couples. And yes, just because it's hard does not mean we will back out...but can at least be more prepared to be the best we can for that other special someone.
Ok...just a few thoughts...God bless you all. And remember you should not be treated like crap in your marriage. It's not what God ordered. Yes endure, endure and then some more...but where will you draw the line...and when?
Use your life to serve Christ fully...if your relationships are not leading to that...then my friend read between the lines.
Love you all and please...this is not about me and Lud...lol
I have a few questions, don't I always, and would love it if I got some feedback, whether from the Biblical perspective or not...
Why do couples undergo years of masochistic suffering and after trying EVERYTHING in the book is still not working out, why do they stay together?
Why do many couple try to paint a picasso for society, when, in my opinion, lying isn't going to make it better?
Seriously, why if you are divorced, you get married more than another time....did you not learn from your previous mistakes?
Should the person that gets divorced re marry?
Then again, should a couple get married just because it's the right thing to do? (you know, circumstantial relationships)
In my personal opinion, todays society plays an important roll in todays families and especially marriages. They paint this picture perfect Cinderella rose bringing blue prince, and beautifully dressed at all times available house wife...anf marriage is not like that. AT ALL.
Marriage is one of the biggest acts of faith to take. You DONT know the other person well enough, and when the true colors start rising, or the first argument comes up, or when their fidelity is tested..and fails....then what? What book to read, where to turn. Churches are chaotic. People are afraid of being "alone". No one cares to read their Bible and trully read the entire passage.
The word of God clearly states how a man is supposed to treat his wife....as Christ loves the church. And how wives are supposed to treat and respect their husbands.
Now, don't get me wrong, there is no need to go to extremes. There are many unwritten rules and realities that no ones tells ready to marry couples. And yes, just because it's hard does not mean we will back out...but can at least be more prepared to be the best we can for that other special someone.
Ok...just a few thoughts...God bless you all. And remember you should not be treated like crap in your marriage. It's not what God ordered. Yes endure, endure and then some more...but where will you draw the line...and when?
Use your life to serve Christ fully...if your relationships are not leading to that...then my friend read between the lines.
Love you all and please...this is not about me and Lud...lol
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